沉迷于网络游戏 英文:“bos259”
你是否对孩子说过:“你要好好学习”?
您是否以玩手机游戏为由,杜绝孩子使用手机?
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您是否对孩子的恋爱和追星表现出过多的敌意,甚至极度禁止?
你是否也试过和孩子谈心,可是他表现出来的态度却是极为不耐烦甚至大吵大闹?
请问孩子都沉迷于游戏了,又怎么能学着去理解他的想法呢?
如果你对孩子的行为视而不见,那就证明你们的沟通不是有效的,那你自己的沟通方式是无效的,你这里的沟通方法已经不适合给孩子提供有用的信息了。
也许有些父母会说,那我们到底该如何和孩子去沟通?其实沟通就是通过语言表达的方式。
如果你看到孩子玩手机,你可以告诉他:我看到你现在非常的不开心,现在是学习时间很紧张,你可以和爸爸说说让我们先休息一下,一会儿再写作业吗?或者,你可以和我说说你的想法。
最后,我想说的是,在沟通的过程中,最重要的一点是要学会聆听。听也是一个非常简单的问题,而且要明白孩子的想法,要站在孩子的角度去理解。
如果你能体会到孩子的感受,你就能知道他的需求,而不是照本宣声,硬碰硬的态度。
不沟通是大人口中的”逆反”,但如果能用”我理解你的感受”和”我觉得你可以更好的面对这个情绪”,那么我们就能够有效的去解决这个问题。
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